And this is relevant to me how?

And this is relevant to me how?

If you want people to care about what you’re telling them, frame it in a way that’s relevant to them. Whether you’re telling a story, writing an email, or pitching an idea, if you don’t tell people why you think they should care, they’ll...
Want to get what you want in 2018? Ask for it!

Want to get what you want in 2018? Ask for it!

Sometimes we feel so strongly about something we want for ourselves in our work lives, that we assume we’ve been more than clear about it to those around us. Whether it’s a promotion, a raise, or your prospective client’s business, how could people...
Communicate authentically—OK, but how?

Communicate authentically—OK, but how?

In an MBA class I teach for the University of North Carolina on business communication, I ask my students to identify the characteristics of strong executive presence. Every time, they identify something along the lines of “I don’t know, they seem...
Wait, that’s not what the subject line said!

Wait, that’s not what the subject line said!

The non-verbals of email: Including a relevant subject line   Email is definitely a verbal medium. After all, we get most of the information in an email from the words the writer uses. Still, you can communicate quite a bit of information in an email with things...
The secret to a life of meaningful small talk

The secret to a life of meaningful small talk

Small talk: Who needs it, right?! Well… we all do.   I was born hating small talk. HATING IT!!! As a kid growing up, I’d say: “Oh my gawd, why do I need to engage in it? Why can’t we just talk about whatever we need to talk about?...